DateWise: Your Dating Tracker
Private dating journal & notes
Coming soon to the App Store




What it does
A private place to think clearly about who you're dating. Reflect after every date, hear your own voice notes later, and notice patterns before they repeat.
Dating is easier to enjoy when you can see it clearly. DateWise is a private dating journal that helps you remember how each date actually felt, compare it with what you said you wanted, and notice your patterns before they repeat.
There is no swiping, no matching and no profiles. DateWise is not a dating service. It is a calm, private place for your own notes, kept on your device.
REFLECT AFTER EVERY DATE
- A short guided reflection while the date is still fresh
- Capture how you felt, what stood out and what gave you pause
- Record a "Future Me" voice note and hear your own honest take months later
KEEP EVERYONE STRAIGHT
- A simple page for each person you are seeing
- A timeline of dates, notes and photos
- A connection summary you can read in seconds
KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR
- Build your Buy Box: the qualities that matter most to you, weighted your way
- See how each connection lines up with it
- Revisit and adjust it as you learn
SEE YOUR PATTERNS
- Insights across your reflections and journal
- A reflection trend and a dating burnout check-in
- A Today view with your next step
A PRIVATE JOURNAL
- Free-form entries with photos and voice
- Optional Face ID lock
- Export your notes as text, or delete everything, any time
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
No account and no sign-in. Your people, reflections, journal and voice notes are stored on your device and are not uploaded to a server.